Thursday, January 27, 2005

My new congregation

Last night was the last meeting at the Kingdom Hall for me. It was nice to see everyone and to associate with everyone. After the meeting, I gave out some thank you cards to the families who had me over for dinner and took a couple of pictures.

It's so nice to know that you can go anywhere around the world and the Witnesses you meet are like family. During my stay, they took me in and I really felt like I was a part of the congregation, even though sometimes, I didn't know what they were saying. I learned a lot from them about Jehovah and about how we really need to stick close to him and each other now more than ever before.

This experience of going to a spanish speaking congregation was hard because of the language difference, but I still want to go to one when I get home.

Here's a picture of some of the people in my new congregation... Las Palmas.

Las Palmas Congregation in Curenavaca, Mexico

Monday, January 24, 2005

Ballet Folklorico in Mexico City

Busy week

On Wednesday we went to the Ballet Folklorico in Mexico City. It was really interesting. It wasn’t like the ballet in the US. It was traditional folk dancing from the different regions and peoples of Mexico. Some of the dances reminded me of Stomp and some reminded me of Riverdance. Some parts even reminded me of certain scenes of West Side Story. It was great and well worth the $50 ticket. I’d definitely like to get the DVD of the performance.

On Thursday, I went to dinner at one of the house of one of the couples from the Kingdom Hall. The husband is the presiding overseer in the congregation. They have been married for eight years and they are so cute. The husband, Alejandro, is in a wheelchair. He was in car accident some years ago. Their car is equipped so he can accelerate and stop with a clutch-like thing on the left side of the car. It was interesting to see him drive because I’ve never been in a car with a person who could drive a car, yet couldn’t walk.

We had a good time talking and he helped me with my grammar. We had enchiladas for dinner. His wife, Rosa, is a great cook, but I think there’s a conspiracy to fatten me up in Mexico. Everyone keeps fixing me these plates fit for two people. There were at least six enchiladas on the plate and even though I loved them to absolute death, I couldn’t eat them all. Alex said to me, “If you can’t eat it all, you don’t have to. Give me your plate.” Then he ate my food. It was very funny because I can’t picture anyone I know in the US doing that. I really my time with them, even though they were trying to marry me off to a Mexican husband. They were joking of course, but all in all, I had a great time.

On Friday, we got a new roommate, Stacy from Alabama. She is here independently and very eager to soak up a ton of Spanish. I took her around town on Saturday and we ate at two different restaurants. Most of our group is in Acapulco and since I didn’t go, it was perfect that Stacy showed up. I may have spent the day all alone, as Rosa, our Mexican mama and Jami, both had plans.

Sunday, it finally happened. I got homesick. I talked to my family on Saturday and was fine the rest of the day. But on Sunday, I missed them a lot, especially because it’s snowing. I love the snow. Sure it makes life a little less than easy, but it’s so beautiful when it’s freshly fallen. I love to take pictures of it and I was looking forward to taking pictures of the first snow with my digital camera. I’ve always wanted to send in my snow picture to Don and Marty on the morning news. Maybe it’ll snow again after I get home.

Wednesday, January 19, 2005

My new boyfriend

My new boyfriend is the pharmacy man. Don't be jealous!

Stay back ladies... he's mine!

Stopped on the side of the road

I forgot to mention this yesterday. On Saturday while we were on the road back to Cuernavaca, we were stopped by the military. They searched the bus and had us get off. We had to stand on the side of the highway for about 10 minutes before they let us go. It was a weird experience. I wasn’t afraid, but at the same time, I was nervous.

Today I got my eyebrows done. It was a strange feeling. I like the way they look now. I need to take a picture of myself so you can see the before and after.

On Wednesday, we are going to Mexico City for the Ballet Folkloriko. I’ve heard that it’s really interesting. We have to dress up. Good thing I brought skirts, otherwise, I’d be in jeans or sweats. Definitely not appropriate for the Ballet.

Tuesday, January 18, 2005

What a weekend !

January 17, 2005
Today was the first day of the second week of classes; a new schedule and new teachers. This week I have conservation from 8 am to 10 am, outside on the patio. Ok, Cuernavaca is the “city of eternal spring” but this morning it felt like winter. It was extremely cold.

My conversation class consists of three other ladies from our group and Garrison from Seattle, Washington. Garrison came by himself and is staying until April. There are lots of independent students on campus. They come and stay a long time to become completely immersed in Spanish. I wish I had the circumstances to do that.

For a few days, I’ve had some concerns about this trip and today I decided to talk to Cheryl about them. She and I talked through some things and I feel a lot better. In the past week, a lot of things have happened to me (losing my suitcase, I’ve fallen into a hole almost every single day, I lost my cell phone and got locked out of the house, and other things) and I just needed to get some things off my chest. Cheryl is very good at putting us at ease about our concerns. But she’s also good at making executive decisions about things that we may not necessarily want to hear. There are things that people want to do that are just not in their best interest. She can make a command decision, provide valid reasons for her decision, and then stick to her decision.

Ok, time for pictures. We went to Taxco, a silver mining town this past Saturday. Some of these pictures are of Taxco, some are of our neighborhood.


Week Two



My bed

Jami's bed

To the right of our house (heading downtown)

To the left of our house

William Lowe playing guitar at Brownies

Some of the gang at Los Arcos (favorite hangout spot of HCC)

Charlie's Angels (Eva and Ashley)

On the bus to Taxco (Robert, Wendy, Sajel, and Maurita)

At the first Plateria in Taxco. Real Silver has .925 or higher inscribed on
it.

The whole town is on series of hills.

Need a potty break or money?

A typical balcony in Taxco

The town center (Zocalo) #1

The town center (Zocalo) #2

Another Plateria (silver shop)

An old carriage

The famous Santa Prisca Cathedral

Overlooking the city

Watch your step. There are no sidewalks and the streets are narrow.

The center of town #3

Thursday, January 13, 2005

I rode the bus by myself today

I went to the Theocratic Ministry School today at the Kingdom Hall. I was interesting because when the entire congregation (about 80 people) sang, it sounded like 150. The friends there were so nice to me. They go around and greet every single person in the congregation with Buenos tardes, a handshake and or hug. I wish we did more of that in the US. Of course everyone is 20-30 minutes for the meeting, so they have time to greet everyone.

The kingdom hall is about the size of the hall in Clarksville except there isn’t a separate part of the literature counter. The literature counter is a 5’ X 3’ table with, I think, one literature servant. Now here’s an interesting thing to note. The campaign we had with the “Keep on the Watch” Brochure starts for them on January 17 until February 13. So the Kingdom Ministry for Mexico is slightly different than the one for the US.

This hall is really far away from our house and so I’m only going to go on Sunday and next Tuesday. Then I’m going to go to the hall near the school.

As for school, everything was cool today. I learned a few more idiomatic expressions, but am too tired to tell you about them. I’ll do it tomorrow.

Wanna see some pictures? The first few are at our house and the rest are of the Bascilica in Mexico City and the pyramids at Teotihucan. Enjoy!


Photo in one of the classrooms
Mini shopping center near the school
Patio view #1
Patio view #2
Patio view #3
Patio door leading to our bedroom
Houses behind our street
Jami on the patio steps
Waiting at McDonald's for the group
Bascilica of Guadaloupe (old)
Bascilica of Guadaloupe (the other old one)
The last mile #1 (crawling to Santa Maria)
The last mile #2
Donkey anyone?
Big huge plant
Painting with insects
Is that blood? eww
Aww, isn't that cute? (Not $5.00 worth of cute!)
One of the first temples at Teotihucan
Excavation behind the temple on the left.
To the left of the excavation
Calle de los muertos
Stairs that were discovered in an underground living space
Fachada Norte del Basamento Pasado
Multifamily home
Drainage system
Abuela
Another walkway at Teotihucan
Me, just a little darker (at Teotihucan)
A Jaguar maybe?
Diego and Ali (Nuestra Amigitos)
David from Westchester

Wednesday, January 12, 2005

estoy hablando espanol

Today, I finally got use my laptop at school. I decided last night that I would write down my thoughts (listen to me… type out my thoughts) in Microsoft Word the night before and then copy and paste them into my blog in the morning. We don’t have much time to spend in the computer lab and so this is the easiest way to get all my thoughts out in a clear concise way.

My clase de español is going well, although tomorrow Beckie has to leave class for a reception for the directors. So I’ll be by myself for about a half hour. I’ll be fine and I can ask our teacher some questions about some other tenses that I never seemed to learn (future, conditional, potential). I have homework tonight, which I will get to momentarily.

My second conversation class with David was interesting again today. We read a passage about first loves and ended up talking about the hurricanes in Florida this past fall. Our conversations jump all over the place. We talked about where Maryland is in relation to Washington DC and I explained why there are a million traffic circles in DC. Then we talked about Pennsylvania and outlet malls. Then we moved north and talked about New York City and the Broadway shows that are good. David wants to see Wicked. But the funny thing was that he didn’t really understand what the word “wicked” meant. I’m finding that there are words in the English language that we as Americans understand, but can’t really explain to non-native speakers. Wicked was one of those words for me.

Cheryl is feeling better. She has the nastiest cough I’ve ever heard. When she coughed it sounded like one of her lungs was going to fly out of her mouth at any moment. Her mama had her put Vicks vapor rub on her chest. Then she crumbled up newspaper and put that on her chest. Then she put on a tight t-shirt with her pajamas on top. Her mama told her that she had to sleep with her hands folded on her chest. This morning she woke up and sounded a whole lot better. Now I’m sure the antibiotic helped too.

This evening I got to visit one of the congregations here in Cuernavaca. The friends there were extremely nice and the wife of the book study conductor helped me answer a couple of questions. I had the book in English and so earlier in the day, I wrote out my answers in Spanish. I even got to read a scripture. They invited me back next week for their version of goodie night. Even though I’m going to start going to the congregation closer to the school, I still want to go back for goodie night because let’s face it, I can’t turn down food.

All in all it was a good day.

Ok, ready for today’s slang?

Want to go to a party? You would say “Nos vamos de reve?” Now, your probably thinking, I thought the word for party was fiesta. It is but here’s an even cooler word for party – pachanga. If you area a party-person, you are a panchangero.

Tuesday, January 11, 2005

First day of classes

January 11, 2005
Today was the first day of classes and it was very interesting. My first class was espanol, and yes, I know you’re thinking, “isn’t she taking all Spanish classes?” Our espanol class is the main classes where we learn grammar. There are two students in the class, myself and Becki, one of the directors from our group. We both need help with the subjunctive so we started out at the beginning-intermediate level – week one of level two. We have a very nice teacher who is patient and very good at explaining things so we understand them. I know I’ll enjoy that class.

My second class, mi conferencia, is the class where we learn idiomatic expressions that are used in Mexico. Now some of these expressions don’t make any sense to me because they aren’t expressions that I would use in English. But I’ve taken this class twice and I think I’ll learn some new expressions.

Lastly, I have conversacion with two difference group leaders, Marianna and David. I have Marianna the first hour and David the second hour. This class was interesting because all we did was talk, hence the name of the class. There was no grammar, we just had a conversation. The first hour we talked about being in Mexico and the places we had seen and why we were studying Spanish. The second hour we talked about the problem with children spending too much time watching TV and how there are so many shows that are inappropriate for children. The conversation drifted to reality shows, the pros and cons of cable tv, our mutual musical likes and dislikes and the effects of shows like Dawson’s Creek on teenagers. It was a great conversation and the first time I felt completely comfortable talking to someone about a topic that I had a real opinion about. That hasn’t happened in a long time. In the past, in classes, we were given a topic and we talked about it, sort of going through the motions of using whatever grammar we’d just learned in the conversation – always directed conversation. But this time we started on one topic and the others just naturally flowed, very much the way a conversation flows in real life.

I really enjoyed my first day of classes. I was apprehensive, most because I didn’t know where I would be placed. But I know that I’m at the right level for me. I also know that I will progress even further. I want to get to the potential and conditional tense. I don’t think I’ll get there while we’re here, but at the very least, I’ll know enough that I’ll be ready to learn it when I get back to Maryland.

Now, for the rest of my day.

Jami and I went downtown to explore the Zocalo, the place that is the equivalent to the Inner Harbor in Baltimore, but without the water. It the center of downtown with tons of shops and merchants and vendors ready to sell you any and everything under the sun. We went to an open air market with lots of crafts like hand woven clothes and purses and jewelry. It was really nice to see all that the vendors had to offer. But I have to pace myself with my money right now because I don’t want to run out of money too soon. There is something special that I’m looking for (and no, I’m not saying what it is until I get home), but I didn’t find it today. I do plan on bringing gifts home, but not many. I want just the right items.

We walked around also to find the Kingdom Hall because my letter said that it is located at #36 Vicente Guerrero. We didn’t find it, although we were on the right street. We stopped in a boot shop where two men were playing cards and asked them where #36 was and they found out that it was across town. In Cuernavaca, there are “colonias”, neighborhoods (what we know as villages in Columbia) and we were in Colonia Centro. The Kingdom Hall is in Colonia Granjas, across town. So when we found out that it wasn’t there, I decided that I would just ask Carlos, whose uncle is a Jehovah’s Witness were his congregation is. His congregation is Spanish speaking and the one I was looking for is the English speaking. Jami kept telling me that I should go to the Spanish one anyway, which I planned on doing. I just wasn’t planning to go all the meetings in Spanish.

So as we were walking around looking for a place to a soda, we walked up on some witnesses who were talking to people and giving out tracts. I asked them if they were witnesses, just to make sure because all I could see was tracts, not magazines. They said yes and we introduced ourselves. They told me that the English congregation was really far away and that I should come with them to their congregation. One of the ladies’ daughters speaks English and they said that she could help me with translating at the meeting. They told me that the Book Study is tomorrow (Tuesday) and that the Theocratic Ministry School is on Wednesday. They are going to meet me in front of Los Archos and take me to the meetings. Now, I know that there is a congregation near the school and so next week I will probably go there. The school is closer to our house and so the kingdom hall should be as well. But it was nice to meet those Witnesses and make definite arrangements to go the meetings with them. On Sunday, I’m going to the Watchtower meeting and so I have to study for it in Spanish so that I can answer a question. It will probably take me several hours to prepare. So I’ll study on the bus on the way to Taxco. I’m really excited about going to the meetings in Spanish. I’m nervous, but ready to try out the Spanish that I’m learning at school.

After making arrangements with the friends, we went to a book store and to several other places and finally met up with “Las hermanitas” – three sisters who came together on this trip. We went to Parrillado Restaurante and had a small meal and talked about classes. We also talked about the sad conditions in Mexico. There are thousands of street vendors trying to sell you everything under the sun. Everyone on them is darker skinned and seemingly from one of the various indigenous tribes. People of that background have so few opportunities in life. They are treated a little better than animals, but not by much. You see them shining shoes, sweeping and moping floors, begging for money, selling handmade crafts in the street and doing other forms of work that seem degrading. In a way, you want to help by buying something they have, but at the same time, if you buy from one, ten more come to sell you something. So where do you draw the line.

Already in four days, I’ve said “no gracias” so many times, I can’t even count and part of me feels guilty because there are some things that I want to buy. But I really need to save my money and pace myself. If I have a little extra during the third week, I’ll go back and make some purchases.

Ok, now for the idiomatic expressions that I learned today:
Está como quiere! - She’s a hot mama!
Se cree la muy muy - She thinks she’s the last coke on the beach!
Que padre! - It’s cool
Me cae gordo - I don’t like him
Está como mango – he is handsome, she’s beautiful
And personal favorite – echar la casa por la ventana – (literally: throw the house out of the window) – used when someone spends a lot of money preparing for a party.

Saturday, January 08, 2005

We've arrived

We’re finally here. The day started at 3:37 A.M. when I woke from the four nightmares about not making it to the airport on time. I was anxious about leaving, mostly because I don’t enjoy the act of traveling. I don’t mind going away, but the preparation can be overwhelming for me.
Last night, I finally pack my clothes and repacked and repacked. After the third time, I finally got the big suitcase closed and then I worked on the second suitcase. I was dead set against taking two suitcases, but it was inevitable. After packing the second time, I look over at my TV and saw the gift that I bought for my mama. It was sitting in the gift bag on the floor. So I reopened the already jam-packed bag and rearranged the toiletries and shoes and managed to get the gift in the bag. At 6:00, I left for Columbia (30 minutes later than I wanted) to go our final orientation.

Just as an aside… I bought a set of bright yellow luggage tags for my suitcases, but I didn’t put one on the smaller of the two. When it came time to situate the bags, I couldn’t find the second tag. So I filled out the one that comes with the luggage and hoped for the best.

So at 5:00 a.m. this morning, I arrived at Cheryl’s house ready to take that trip to the airport. We swapped stories of minutes of sleep we collectively got and joked about not being able to sleep on the plane. We arrived at 5:45 at BWI and waited for the rest of the students to arrive. Now in this part of the story you’ll begin to see the pattern of what became a really, really long day.

First, I left my wallet the at ticket counter. Another student saw it and brought it over to me.
Next, we get to security and the guy tells me to take off my shoes before going though the scanner. I did so and there was nothing out of the ordinary about that. But when they scanned my backpack, I think they messed it up. Last night, I had games. After it was scanned, I did not. Hmmm….

When we arrived in Houston, I got some lunch and everything seemed fine. But when we got to Mexico City, one of my suitcases was missing. The folks at the airport said that they should be able to find the suitcase in a day or so, I don't think that all is lost. Now, not to worry, I have all my clothes and money. But I don't have most of my toiletries. Our mama took us to the Supermercado, which is owned by Walmart, and I picked up a few things. And no, there was no $5.50 bin in the Supermecado.

My roommate, Jami, and I settled into our room and couldn't really decide whether to sleep or unpack. We decided to unpack and write in our journals for a bit. I fell asleep with my headphones on and had a one of the best night's sleep that I've had in a long time. I was better than sleeping in my bed at home, not too hot, not too cold.

Today, Saturday, we came to school to take our placement exams. I did alright on the written and oral, but I still need to work on the preterite and imperfect tense. So I was placed in an intermediate level class. That is where I expected to be placed and it flows nicely with where we left off in Claudia's class.

Later, we'll head down town for the walking tour and hopefully we'll get to go to a bookstore.

Wednesday, January 05, 2005

Getting there

Today was my last day at work. I had tons to do and got a lot done. I went to the dermatologist and to the optomistrist. After a week of searching, I gave up on finding my glasses and just bought two new pair.

I still have a lot of packing to do. I'm doing laundry tomorrow, meeting a friend for coffee and then packing up my stuff. I bought some of those bags that let you suck the air out so that I can have more space in the suitcase. Hopefully they work.

I wish I could be a little more eloquent right now, but it's 11:52 pm and I'm just too tired.


Tuesday, January 04, 2005

Itinerary

So here's the plan:

Flight Itinerary

07JAN CO#627 BWI-Houston 8:15am-10:39am
07JAN CO#1424 Houston-Mexico City 12:05pm-2:31pm

29JAN CO#1725 Mexico City-Houston 12:35pm-2:49pm
29JAN CO#426 Houston-BWI 4:00pm-7:51pm



Now, I'm going to let you know that I will be off the radar screen for about a day or two after we arrive. I'm going to call home during our lay over in Houston. But I'm only calling a limited number of people, namely my family.

As far as my cellphone goes, I'm taking it with me, but I'm not 100% it will work. If it does, I'll give a few folks a call. If not, I'll keep in touch strictly through email using my msn email address. Since I'll only have internet access from the school in Cuernavaca, the best time to catch me will probably be between 8 am and 1 pm CST. I would love to talk to you on instant messenger. If you want to talk on AOL instant messenger or msn messenger, drop me an email with your screen name and I'll add you to my list.

I'm going to miss everyone...

Three days left

Three days left until I leave for Mexico and I need to start packing. I have everything I need, but for some reason I can't get started. I'm going to take off from work on Thursday to wash all my clothes and pack.

I still can't find my glasses and I'm starting to think that I'm going to have to go without glasses. I'm not giving up hope, but things aren't looking good.



Cuernavaca, Mexico